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Fascination
In this and the next chapter we shall present to you information
regarding the effect of Mental Influence manifested when there is personal
contact between the persons using the power and the person affected. Then
we shall pass on to a consideration of the effect produced when the
persons are not in direct contact with each other.
There are two general forms of the direct use of Mental Influence,
which, although somewhat resembling each other, may still be separated
into two classes. The first we shall call "Fascination" and the second
"Hypnotism".
By Fascination we mean the manifestation of Mental Influence when the
two persons are together, without passes or the usual hypnotic methods. By
Hypnotism we mean the use of the power, also, when the two parties are
together, but accompanied by passes or hypnotic methods.
Under the head of Fascination are to be found the manifestations
generally known as "Personal Magnetism," "Charming," etc. , is quite
commonly employed, in varying degrees by many persons, often without their
conscious knowledge of the principles employed. Many persons are possessed
of the power of Fascination "naturally" and without having studied or
practiced the principles. Many others, not originally possessing the
power, have acquired by study and practice the power to influence people
in this way. For, it must be known, the power may be acquired by study and
practice just as may any other power of mind and body. To some it is easy,
to others difficult – but all may acquire a very great degree of the power
by intelligent study and practice of the underlying principles.
Fascination is one of the oldest forms of the manifestations of Mental
Influence. It was known to, and employed by, the earliest races of men. It
was known to, and employed by, the earliest races of men. It is even found
among the lower animals that pursue their prey or capture their mates by
its use.
A recent writer on the subject has defined the word, used in this
connection, as: "Acting upon by some powerful or irresistible influence;
influencing by an irresistible charm; alluring, exciting, irresistibly or
powerfully, charming, captivating or attracting powerfully, influencing
the imagination, reason or will of another in an uncontrollable manner;
enchanting, captivating or alluring, powerfully or irresistibly. "
As we have just said, this power is observable even among the lower
animals in some cases. Instances are related by naturalists, which
scorpions have fascinated other insects, causing them to circle around and
around until finally the insect would plunge down right within striking
distance of the scorpion, which would then devour its prey. Birds of prey
unquestionably fascinate their game, and men who have been brought in
contact with wild tigers, lions, etc. have testified that they felt
paralyzed in some manner, their legs refusing to obey their will, and
their minds seeming to become numbed and stunned. Those who have seen a
mouse in the presence of a cat will testify to the effect of some power
exerted by the latter. Birds in the presence of a cat and serpents also
manifest symptoms of a conquered will. And naturalists cite many instances
of the employment of this force by birds seeking to captivate and charm
their mates at the beginning of the season.
Among men it has been noticed that certain individuals possess this
power to a great degree, some of the "great men" of ancient and modern
times having been so filled with the power that they could manage their
followers almost as one would move automatons. Julius Caesar had this
power developed to a great degree, and used it from youth to his last
days. He was worshipped - almost as a god by his soldiers - who would
undertake almost any task at his bidding. Napoleon also possessed this
charm to a wonderful degree. It enabled him to control men with whom he
came in contact, and to bend them to his will. He rose from a poor student
to the dignity and power of the Emperor of France. When banished to Elba
he escaped, and landing in France, alone and unarmed, confronted the ranks
of the French army drawn up to capture him, and walking towards the
soldiers compelled the latter to throw down their guns and flock to his
support. He entered Paris at the head of the great army, which had been
sent forth to capture him. This is no wild legend, but a sober fact of
history. And in our own times we see how certain leaders of men sweep
people before them and move them around like pawns on the chessboard of
life.
All of the above mentioned phenomena comes under the head of
Fascination, and is the result of the emanation of streams of active
Thought-Waves from the mind of a person, the same being strongly
concentrated and directed toward those whom the person wishes to affect.
The person forms a strong thought in his mind and sends it out to the
others charged with the force of concentrated will, so that the other
person feels it most strongly and forcibly. The fundamental idea is the
forming of the thought, and then sending it out to the other person.
For instance, if you wish a person to like you, you should form in your
mind this thought: "That person likes me," fixing it in your own mind as a
fact. Then project to him the concentrated thought, "You like me – you
like me very much," with an air of assurance and confidence, and the other
person is bound to feel the effect unless he or she has acquired a
knowledge of the subject and is using self-protection. The thought should
be sent forth with the strength that usually accompanies a strong spoken
statement, but you must not actually "speak" the words aloud – you should
merely say them strongly "in your mind. "
If you wish to produce an effect or impress Strength upon another
person, the same process may be used, changing the Thought and vibrations
to the idea that you have a stronger Will than the other person, and are
able to overcome his Will – using the silent message of "I am Stronger
than you – my Will overcomes yours," etc.
Some successful agents and salesmen use the following method in
reaching their customers. They form a thought that the other person
desires their goods very much, and then they send out the Thought-Waves
that "You desire my goods – you want them very much – you have an
irresistible longing for them," etc.
Others use the following when they wish another to comply with their
wishes: "You will do as I say – will do as I say – you will yield to me
fully and completely," etc.
You will readily see from the above examples that the whole principle
employed in any and all of these cases consists of:
(1)The Thought of what the person wishes the other to do held firmly in
the mind; and
(2)The projection of that Thought to the other, silently, in the shape
of unspoken words.
In the above you have the whole secret of Fascination condensed to a
small space. You will understand, of course, that the words are only a
means of concentrating and vitalizing the thought. Animals merely feel
Desires, but are able to fascinate by the strength of them, although they
cannot use words. And one person may fascinate another without
understanding a word of his language, the real strength coming from the
strength of the desire behind the words. The formation of the
desire-thought into words is merely for the purpose of concentrating and
focusing the thought, for words are concentrated symbols of ideas,
thoughts or feelings.
The exact process of "sending forth" the Thought-Wave to the other is
difficult to describe. You know how you feel when you say something very
forcible and emphatic to another person. You can fairly "feel" the force
of the words being hurled at the other person. Well, cultivate that same
power in sending forth the "unspoken word" in the above manner, and you
will soon be able to notice the effect of the thought on the other. It may
help you to imagine that you can see the force flying from you to the
other. The imagination properly used helps very much in these matters, for
it creates a mental path over which the force may travel.
You must not act awkwardly when sending out the Thought-Waves, but
converse in an ordinary manner, sending your Thought-Waves between your
speeches, when the other person is talking to you, or at any pause in the
conversation. It is always well to send first a powerful Thought-Wave
before the conversation is opened, preferably while you are approaching
the person. And it is likewise well to terminate the interview with a
"parting shot" of considerable strength. You will find that these
Thought-Waves are of far greater power than spoken words, and then again,
you can in this way send out impressions that you could not utter in
spoken words for obvious reasons.
And now do you see how you have been affected by persons who have
influenced you at times in your past life? Now that you know the secret
you will be in a measure immune from further impressions from others. And
when you read our concluding chapter, entitled "Self-Protection," you will
be able to surround yourself with a protective armor through which the
Thought-Waves cannot penetrate, but which will turn aside the shafts
directed toward you. |