PART 1
RECORDS OF 1912
TWO SÉANCES WITH MRS. WRIEDT
MR. W. T. STEAD MATERIALISES
By M. Chedo Miyatovich
After some hesitation, from personal
reasons, I have arrived at the conclusion that it is my duty to the
undying memory of my dear friend, William T. Stead, and my duty to a
great cause, to address this letter to you for publication in
Light.
By profession I am
a diplomatist, having had the honour to represent my country (Servia) at
the court of the King of Roumania, at the sublime porte of the Sultan of
Turkey, and three times at the court of Queen Victoria, and once at the
court of King Edward VII, besides having been entrusted by my Government
with several important diplomatic missions and representations at
international conferences. I am a member of several learned societies on
the Continent, and an honorary member of the Royal Historical Society in
London. I mention these personal facts to claim from your readers the
credit that I am a man accustomed to weigh the facts and my own words in
full consciousness of my responsibility. I ought to add that for many
years I have been interested in the scientific study of occult
phenomena, but was not yet a convinced Spiritist.
Having heard that
at Mr. W.T. Stead’s house at Wimbledon the remarkable American medium, Mrs.
Wriedt, with whom Vice-Admiral Moore experimented, was staying, I asked
that lady for permission to pay her my respects, and eventually to have
a séance with her. She gave me an appointment for Thursday, May 16, at
10.30 in the morning. I went there accompanied by my friend, Mr. H.
Hinkovitch, doctor of law and a distinguished barrister at Agram
(Croatia), who had just arrived in London.
Mrs. Wriedt took us
to Julia’s Bureau, and told us that she is what is called a voicing
medium, but that under good conditions the materialised spirits may also
show themselves. She asked us to examine the cabinet and the room if we
liked. As I have been on a previous occasion in that room, and examined
the cabinet with several German Doctors, I did not think it necessary to
do that on this occasion.
I and Dr.
Hinkovitch took seats near each other in the centre of the room, facing
the cabinet. Mrs. Wriedt did not enter the cabinet, but sat all the time
on a chair near me. She placed a tin speaking-tube (megalophon) in front
of my friend. She started an
automatic musical clock and put all the lights out, so that we sat in perfect darkness.
When a beautiful
melody of a somewhat sacred character was finished by the clock, Mrs. Wriedt said to us that the
conditions were very good, and
that we should be able not only to hear, but also to see some spirits.
“Yes,” she continued, “here is the spirit of a young woman. She nods to
you, Mr. Miyatovich; do you not see her?” I did not see her, but my
friend saw a piece of oblong and illuminated fog. “she whispers to
me,” continued Mrs. Wriedt,
“that her name is Mayell –
Adela or Ada Mayell,”
I was astounded. Only three weeks ago
died Miss Ada Mayell, a very dear friend of mine to whom I was deeply
attached. But in that moment there was no other manifestation of her.
She disappeared without saying anything more except her name.
Next moment a light
appeared from behind the medium, and moved from the left to the right of
the cabinet, as if carried slowly by a soft breeze. There, in that
slowly moving light, was not
the spirit but the very person of my friend William T. Stead, not wrapt
in white wrappers, as I have seen spirits at other séances, but in his
usual walking costume! We both, I and Mrs. Wriedt, exclaimed loudly from
joy. My friend Hinkovitch, who only knew Mr. Stead from photos, said
: “Yes, that is Mr. Stead !”
Mr. Stead’s spirit nodded to me in a
friendly manner and disappeared. Half a minute later he appeared again
and stood opposite me (but somewhat higher above the floor), looking at
me and bowing to me. And a little later he appeared again, for the third
time, seen by us all three still more clearly than before. After his
third disappearance I felt that the speaking-tube was moved towards my
face, and then we all three heard distinctly these words :
“Yes, I am
Stead—William T. Stead! And, my dear friend Miyatovich, I am so pleased
you came here. I myself came here expressly to give you a fresh proof
that there is life after
death, and that Spiritism is true. I tried to persuade you of that while
here, but you always hesitated to accept that truth.”
There I interrupted him by saying :
“But you know I always believed what you said to me !”
“Yes” he continued,
“you believed because I was telling you something about it, but now I
come here to bring you proof of what I was telling you—that you should
not only believe, but
know
[pronouncing that word with great
emphasis], that there is really a life after death, and that Spiritism
is true! Now, good-bye my friend ! Yes, here is Adela Mayell, who wishes to
speak to you!”
Stead never knew Miss Ada Mayell in
his life, nor had he ever heard her name before. She then spoke to me in
her affectionate and generous manner, trying to reassure me on certain
questions which have sadly preoccupied my mind since her death, and
telling me that she is happy now. There is no need to report here all
she said to me. Mrs. Wriedt
and Mr. Hinkovitch heard every word she said.
Then, to my own and
my Croatian friend’s astonishment, a loud voice began to talk to him in
the Croatian language. It was an old friend, a physician by profession,
who died suddenly from heart disease. My friend Hinkovitch could not
identify who that might have been, but they continued for some time the
conversation in their native tongue, of which, naturally, I heard and
understood every word. Mrs. Wriedt, for the first time in her life,
heard how the Croatian language sounds.
Mr. Hinkovitch accidentally
overturned the speaking tube, and although he tried to replace it in the
original position, and thought he had succeeded in doing so, the talking
manifestations were not continued. When the light was turned on, Mrs.
Wriedt found that the speaking tube was not placed properly, and that
circumstance, according to her, explained the cessation of further
manifestations.
I and my Croatian friend were deeply
impressed by what we witnessed on that day, May 16, between 11 and 12 o’clock at
noon. I spoke of it to many of my friends as the
most wonderful experience of my life.
I spoke of it to the most scientific woman of Germany, Frau Professor
Margarette Selenka, Who had just returned from Tenerife, where she was
establishing a station for scientific observation of apes. Mme. Selenka
came to London to hear all the details of the
Titanic
catastrophe, in which her great
friend W.T. Stead had perished. We arranged to have a private séance
with Mrs. Wriedt on Friday,
May 24, at one o’clock. That séance was held in Julia’s Bureau, but
excepting for a voice shouted once, “Sit quiet in the chair!” no other
manifestation took place. By arrangement with Mrs. Wriedt, I and Mme.
Selenka returned in the evening, and at eight o’clock we had a séance,
at which, besides me and Mme. Selenka, Mrs. And Miss Harper and a very
charming lady, whose name I did not ascertain, were present. After a
short time from the beginning of the séance we all saw Mr. Stead appear, but hardly for more
than ten seconds. He disappeared, to reappear again somewhat more
distinctly, but not so clearly as he appeared to me on May 16. That was
the only materialisation phenomenon of that evening, but as compensation
we had wonderful and various voicing manifestations. Mr. Stead had a
long conversation with Mme. Selenka and a short one with me, reminding
me of an incident which, two years ago, took place in his office at
Mowbray House. Then, again, Miss Ada Mayell spoke to me, telling me,
among other things, that she knew that her sisters and her niece wrote
to me, as she wished them to do. After her my own mother came and spoke to me in our
own Servian language most affectionately. Mme. Selenka had a very
affecting conversation with her husband, Professor Lorentz Selenka, of
the Munich University, and also with her own mother, who died last year in Hamburg; both these conversations
were carried on in German. A friend of Mme. Selenka came singing a
German song, and asked her to join him, as they used to sing together in
old times, and Mme. Selenka did join him singing. Then we had an Irishman, once a naval officer, who
had a long, cheerful and. Indeed, quite a sparkling talk with the charming lady, whose
name I unfortunately do not know, but with whom the brilliant Irishman
seemed to be everlastingly in love. Naturally, although I heard clearly
all the conversations in German and in English, I am not justified in
reporting them here. Not even the long statement which Julia made
concerning certain suggestions to keep the Cambridge House as a centre
for psychic research in memory of Stead, can I properly reproduce
here. All I wish to state publicly is that I am deeply grateful to the wonderful gift of
Mrs. Wriedt for having enabled me to obtain from my unforgettable
friend, William T. Stead, a convincing proof that there is a life after
death, and that Spiritism is true, and for having given me almost a
heavenly joy in hearing the affectionate words of my dear mother in our
own tongue, and in getting another and sacred proof of the continuance
of the living individuality of one of the most charming, most selfless,
and generous women whom I have ever known so far in my life.
Royal Societies Club, St. James’s
S.W. By Vice Admiral W. Usborne Moore
The versatile genius of W. T. Stead
was never directed to a better object nor one more worthy of the highest admiration than
when he instituted “Julia’s Bureau.” No mortal has ever schemed out a
saner or more altruistic plan. He claimed to be guided from the next
state of consciousness, and I believe he was, and by his friend in
spirit-life, Julia Aimes. The general idea was that men and women who
wished to come into touch with their relatives who had passed the change
called death were to come to
him, register their names, and to be taken to mediums
incognito,
who would probably
be able to put them in touch with
those from whom they wished to hear. Free of cost, these visitors
received more or less consolation, and enjoyed the use of Mr. Stead’s
psychic library.
As far as money
went Stead was “Julia’s bureau,” and Julia’s Bureau was Stead. It was a
very costly experiment. Except for certain insignificant contributions
which he received, the whole of the expenses were borne by the founder
alone. He dropped some
thousands of pounds over this beneficent project.
It was a noble scheme, and it was
successful. Many a sorrowing man and woman found peace and comfort
through the agency of the bureau; but, like all one man undertakings, it
was bound to fail when its originator passed over. On July 4, 1912, the Bureau ceased its labours. If a philanthropist comes forward with a
thousand a year to spend upon it, the useful work may still flourish in
different hands.
Unfortunately, on this plane we can do nothing without cash, and I see
no prospect of either the man
or the money being found.
Mr. Stead had a
custom of holding a weekly religious service at his country house with a
small circle of friends, one of whom was a medium; it was followed by a
séance. Julia generally manifested in some way or another. But these
Wednesday evening meetings did not constitute in themselves the
“Bureau,” though pleasing to the few who joined in them. They were
merely incidents in a far larger and more comprehensive plan of benefit
to the general public. These little gatherings may still be continued,
but the grand work of obtaining consolation for those who need it has
ceased to exist, and there is
little chance of its being revived.
Early in 1911 Stead
wrote to me in America asking whom I could recommend as a suitable
psychic for “Julia’s Bureau.” I knew exactly what he required, and named
Mrs. Wriedt, of Detroit, who,
in fact is the very person of all others whose gift is most active and conspicuous for the
purpose he desired to achieve. She came to England at his invitation, and, through her
mediumship, much good was done during the two and a half months she was
able to remain. She was again invited this year, and agreed to come for two months and to return
with Mr. Stead. On the morning of Monday, April 15, she heard the ghastly
intelligence of the loss of the
Titanic,
and hurried down to New York to stop
with kind friends in 61st Street. At this time, and, indeed,
until Wednesday, the 17th, the extent of the catastrophe was
not known. Rumours and false Marconigrams were flying about all over the place; it was not till the 17th
that it was accepted in New
York that the majority of the crew and passengers had perished. The
following letter was received by me by the next return voyage of the
Mauretania, from Mrs. Wridet’s
host; date, New York, April 23, 1912:
Mrs. Wriedt came in from Detroit Tuesday morning, 16th,
and was to return with Mr. Stead for London. The sad end of poor Mr.
Stead was a great shock to her, and she was very much discouraged. At a
séance on the same night of her arrival Dr. Sharp gave us the full details of the
Titanic’s encounter with the berg; also assured us of the passing of Mr. Stead, and gave us names of many prominent persons who
went down with the ship. The following night, Wednesday, Mr. Stead came
(just three days after his passing). He was weak in his articulation,
but we quite understood him; his stay was short. The next night,
Thursday, Mr. Stead came again; his articulation and personality were much stronger, and
he went into details of his passing. The following night, Friday, he came again very
strong and clear, again gave us full details of his
passing………He particularly desired
that Mrs. Wriedt go over to London to fulfil her
engagement, which she is now about doing.
On Friday this gentleman
wired to me for instructions, and on Sunday, 21st, I directed
that Mrs. Wriedt should come over, and then took charge myself of the
financial and other details of her visit. The ladies and gentlemen who
had guaranteed Mr. Stead for
the expenses of the undertaking, just as I expected, cordially supported
my action. The psychic arrived at Wimbledon on Sunday, May 5. Proper
arrangements were made for her times of sitting and periods of diversion
and rest, and séances were held throughout nine weeks, ending on Friday,
July 5.
The results of this visit were, on
the whole, satisfactory. More power was exhibited than last year, and
much good was achieved; but during June there were many blank séances,
owing, in my opinion, to Mrs. Wriedt, against my express wishes, holding
sittings for her own friends at times allotted by me for her rest and
amusement. I found it was quite impossible to stop these irregular
proceedings; any attempt to thwart the determination of the psychic
resulted in a painful scene and consequent “bad conditions”;
remonstrance’s only defeated their own object. My own failures were very
few; no more than I ought to expect in any case (the last sitting was
the best), but I had my finger on the pulse of Cambridge House all the
time, and knew of many disappointments, though not one sitter complained
to me. They appeared to appreciate that in all such cases the psychic
was as disappointed as they were, also that these blanks afforded good
evidence of her entire genuineness. Of the thorough honesty of the
proceedings in the séance room no sitter has ever hinted a doubt. As
trustee for the guarantors I only regret that many casual visitors
enjoyed sittings with Mrs. Wriedt who took no part in bringing her to
England or maintaining her while here.
I propose to give
an account of some of the séances with this privileged instrument of
the higher powers —enough to
demonstrate to your readers the value of her unique gift, which is not
in the least dimmed and which I hope will continue for many years. I
will first give a brief résumé of my own experiences alone with Mrs.
Wriedt in the dark.
We were in the habit of sitting at
some distance from one another; by leaning forward in our chairs as far as possible and
stretching out our right arms to their fullest extent we were just able
to clasp hands. I do not remember that we were ever closer than that. When the sitting began we sat
upright in our chairs in an easy posture; a trumpet, mouth downwards, on the floor between
us; plenty of flowers in bowls and vases on either side of me. Generally
within five minutes voices could be heard, and conversation would last
for periods of between thirty and fifty minutes. On many occasions there were beautiful
spirit lights and etherealisations—i.e., heads and forms brightly illumined, but features not
plainly visible. When the room appeared to me pitch dark the phenomena
were poor; when, to my partially clairvoyant sight, the room was lighter and psychic clouds
could be seen we always had a good sitting.
My guide always
appeared as a phantasm, but could not always speak. It was curious to
see her move back from me to the psychic or to the flowers to gather
strength, and then return. That the forms were not hallucinations of my
own was quite clear, for they moved their arms and could be seen
crossing and recrossing each other. I soon found that Iola had developed
a new power. She could appear to me without being
seen by the psychic, and talk to me
without trumpet and without a single articulate word being heard by Mrs
Wriedt. I could just catch the words, which appeared to emanate from a
distance of six inches from my ear; but Mrs. Wriedt heard nothing at
all, or only a slight swishing sound. On the other hand, the psychic
often saw lights and spirit forms which I was unable to see. All this
shows that our friends on the other side can present a dark half and
manifest only to those whom they desire shall see them or hear them.
Several of my
relatives came to talk to me through the trumpet, but only one or two
friends. The chief communicator was Iola, who told me many new truths
and evinced the most extraordinary memory for events ranging over a
period of from forty to fifty years. She recalled to me circumstances
that occurred during my voyages about Australia, showing a familiarity
with numerous events that did not take place till four years after her
death. These I shall not relate, as they would not interest your
readers.
One feature of the
conversations with my relatives should be noted. On some twenty
occasions they alluded to a lady friend of mine who is in a home for
those who are mentally distressed. I trust that the affliction is only
of a temporary nature; but, whether temporary or permanent, it is
obviously the proper course to separate her from her children for a
considerable time. To do otherwise would be to invite a tragedy. The
children are at present in the care of their nearest relatives, tenderly
cared for and happy in constantly seeing their father, who also visits
his wife whenever his professional duties allow of his doing so. No sane
man could possibly adopt any other course than that which he has found
himself obliged, reluctantly to follow. Yet those on the other side have
been endeavouring to influence me to induce the lady’s relatives to
restore her to her children. Apparently all these spirits can see and
feel is divine sympathy with the sufferer; the common-sense precautions
which we discern so clearly are nothing to them; anything in the nature
of sternness or firmness is abhorrent to their thoughts. To me this is
inexplicable, but it is a very useful lesson. We are not intended while
on this plane to regulate our lives by advice from people in the next
state; they do not know all the circumstances, and have only
commiseration and loving kindness for those who are in distress. They,
apparently, are incapable of
understanding that there are conditions in our sphere where sternness is
kindness and true wisdom.
I was surprised
that Greyfeather, the old Indian medicine chief, was equally indulgent.
The persistence of the latter
and my relatives can only be compared to the story in
David Copperfield
of the constant repetition of Charles the First’s head in Mr. Dick’s
Memorial. I asked my relative, A., a psychic, what he thought of all
this. He replied: “Well, what do you think would happen if Mrs. —— were
to be put in command of a battleship?” It is a fair Analogy. The lady he
mentioned is remarkable for her sympathy, selflessness, and
spirituality. Most certainly, if she were transferred to the grotesque
situation he named, there would be no punishments; crime and offences
against discipline would go unchecked; and in three months, at latest,
the ship would be in a state of mutiny.
This little
experience of mine blows to atoms the overstretched theory that our
subliminal self is responsible for the information we receive in many
ways through mediums. For every utterance of these spirits on the
subject of the restoration of her children to the invalid is opposed to
my judgement. I have not the least intention of
seriously considering them, nor of
obtruding advice on the husband, who is acting in the best interests of
his wife and family.
During the time
Mrs. Wriedt was our guest, Grayfeather, the control of J. B. Jonson, the
materialisation medium at Toledo, Ohio, was a frequent visitor.
He only manifested once, so far as I know, when I was not present. I
asked him one day; “Grayfeather, will you come to my friends Colonel L.
and Major and Mrs. R. next
Tuesday at 8 o’clock?” He said: “Are you coming Chief?” I replied: “No”
he said : “I only come when you are here. I not come to make laugh, I come to do
good.” I told him that he was doing good to come to my friends, and he
finally replied, “I see.” On the Tuesday morning I repeated my request:
“I hope you will come to my friends this afternoon, Grayfeather.” Again he
grunted “I see.” That evening Mrs. R. kindly wrote to me an account of her séance in
which she said that Grayfeather had manifested, shouting: “Chief Usborne
send me: what you want?” He had a friendly talk with the circle, and
then departed. During these last two months the old Indian has
repeatedly told me that he is treating the invalid lady I mentioned
above “in her topknot,” and that he has magnetised me several times so
that I shall be fit to sit frequently. That I have been magnetised often
I do not doubt, for I have sat six times a week for three periods, with
gaps between, without any depletion worth mentioning. I only hope he has
been equally successful with the patient.
As regards “conditions,” the best, of
course, were in dry weather and when the sitters were harmonious. Rain
always had a depressing effect, and the voices were low in the room.
When the conditions were at their best the voices were high, level with
or above our heads; when conditions were bad, and the controls found it
impossible to draw from the throats of the sitters, the voices failed,
and they resorted to the exhibition of coarser physical phenomena. These
consisted of movements of a small table and large vases of flowers,
flowers taken out of vases and bowls which were given to the sitters, and upsetting of chairs, all done noiselessly.
John King (the Sir
Henry Morgan of the past) was active in assisting all phenomena. I think
he might be called the “control-in-charge” at Cambridge House. Dr. Sharp
(Mrs. Wriedt’s own control)
came often and talked in a loud, clear voice; his visits were more
frequent when those people were present who knew him and had talked with
him during the psychic’s visit last year.
Before closing my
brief record of my séances alone with Mrs. Wriedt I ought to mention two rather curious evidential
sittings. A Mrs. H. had a private séance one day which she did not consider
satisfactory, because none of her relatives were able to make their
identity clear to her, but Iola (whom she neither expected nor desired
to see) came to her and sent a
significant private message to her sister, who, she asserted, was a friend of Mrs. H. (this last
statement was true). On the following morning I had a private sitting. After the visits
of some of my relatives a voice was heard, Admiral, I am Mrs. H’s nephew.” He then gave his
Christian and surname correctly, and expressed his great regret that he
had not been able to make himself known to his Aunt clearly on the
previous day; and requested that I would tell her. An expression was
used in the message which sealed his identity beyond doubt. On
acquainting the lady I found that it was this relative she had specially
hoped would manifest during her sitting. I had known this spirit myself
when he was in earth life; he passed over twelve years ago.
It is very rare, indeed, for my guide
to manifest in any way to strangers when I am not present. She has only
done so three times in England, and four times in America (through
another medium). On each of these seven visits there has been a special
reason; on four it has been at my own request.
During this visit
(1912) I did not sit with Mrs. Wriedt in the light, though many of the
guarantors did so. I have done this so often as a scientific experiment
that it was, for me, wholly unnecessary. Sittings in the dark are better
in every way on account of the extraordinary lights, etherealisations
and phantasmal forms; the voices are more numerous and clear.
I will now proceed to give an account
of some of the sittings held on Wednesdays, generally known as “Julia’s
circles.”
Mr. Stead’s manifestations.
The first appearance of W. T. Stead
at Cambridge House, Wimbledon, his country residence when in life, was
at 11.30a.m., May 6, when I was sitting in the dark alone with Mrs.
Wriedt. This phenomenon has been mentioned in your journal in the issue
of May 18, p. 239
[Light,
1912}, and also in Miss Estelle
Stead’s article in the July number of
Nash’s magazine. On the same evening a meeting of Julia’s Circle was organised
to welcome Mrs. Wriedt; it was attended by Miss Stead, who has recorded
briefly what she saw and heard from her father, in the magazine above
mentioned. The first spirit that manifested was Cardinal Newman, who
recited a Latin benediction; Dr. Sharp made himself known in a loud,
clear voice; Grayfeather
followed; then Mr. Stead; he was followed by the son of two of the
sitters and by Iola. Finally, Mr. Stead came again.
The séance lasted
one hour and a quarter, and was replete with incident. The voice of the
Cardinal was heard the instant the lights were put out. At least forty
minutes were taken up by Stead talking to his daughter. I could not help
hearing every word. It was the most painful and, at the same time, the
most realistic, convincing conversation I have ever heard during my
investigations. The first time he came it was chiefly to give directions
to his daughter as to the disposal of his private papers. Miss Estelle
was, naturally, much agitated, and her grief at last reacted upon her
father, who uttered a loud shout, “Oh my God!” and dropped the trumpet,
which fell to the floor with a crash. The second visit, which was at the
end of the séance, was a calmer manifestation; this time the speaker was
much assisted by Dr. Sharp, who sometimes interpreted what he wanted to
say.
On Wednesday, May
8, the members of Julia’s circle met again. This time Mr. Robert King was one of the party, and sat,
as he always has done when Mrs. Wriedt has been present, opposite to her at a
distance of eight feet. The reason that I am relating in some detail what happened in Julia’s
circles is because, speaking generally, the sitters were the same every time, and occupied the same places. Psychic history
has proved that when this is done the best results are obtained. I have
attended these meetings only when Mrs. Wriedt was present, and have
never known a blank séance. Some have been better than others, owing,
no doubt, to superior atmospheric conditions, and partly to the presence of Mr. Robert
King, whose gift has materially assisted in the results obtained through
the American medium. All the members of Julia’s circle were mediumistic,
except three men.
The séance was a very good one. A few
seconds after the lights were switched off phenomena commenced, and they
lasted without interruption for one hour and forty minutes. At least
fifteen different spirits identified themselves to their friends, and
there was an unknown entity making comments on what went on from under a
chair. For quite an hour a spirit was slapping me, at intervals, on the
back with a trumpet (Mr. King described him as a tall, big man); the
noise of sawing wood was going on at the end of the room, ten feet
outside the circle. About the middle of the séance W. T. Stead came,
talking loudly, and insisting upon Julia’s sittings going on. He said
“Ladies and gentlemen, I beg
to propose that these sittings be continued, at any rate as long as Mrs. Wriedt is here. Those in
favour hold up their hands. If any money is required I will see to it.”
(Pause.) “Admiral Moore, you have not held up your hand.” (Pitch Dark.)
To humour him I then raised my hand; my head was struck twice with a
trumpet. The voice continued;
“I was hit in this room once in the same way.”
(I must here
explain that the Julia meetings involved a small extra expense. At the
time I did not see how this was to be met, and discouraged the idea. But
for three weeks after this
séance subscriptions of expectant sitters poured in, and it was evident
that there would be no
difficulty; the amount finally received amounted to one-fourth more than
the sum estimated, and enabled me to give the psychic a substantial gift
from the guarantors. As to my friends allusion to being hit on the head
the previous year, the story was this. One night Stead came up to his
house determined to be very scientific; he directed the two trumpets to
be painted near the big end with luminous paint. This was done, and they
were stood up in the centre of the circle. The lights were put out,
Stead took both Mrs. Wriedt’s hands in his, and the séance began. Presently one trumpet was seen to be
rising, but, instead of any voice coming from it, it was thrown at his head and hit him
a sharp blow. The second trumpet behaved in a similar manner. Stead was
mildly indignant, and exclaimed: “This to me! Take those trumpets away and have them washed.”
When brought back clean and put down in the circle phenomena went on as usual,
and there was a satisfactory séance.)
There was a long
talk by the spirits about the work of Julia’s bureau being carried on as
a fitting memorial to Mr. Stead, and all the members of the circle,
except myself, joined in a
chorus of approval. As it was certain that not one-fiftieth part of the
annual sum required could have been raised by those present for the purpose, and
the most modest estimate for carrying out such a project is one thousand
pounds a year, this seemed to me futile; so little do those in the next
state appreciate the material facts of earthly conditions.
The ladies of the
party were ejaculating, “Yes, dear chief, it shall be done,” and so
forth. With all my respect for Mr. Stead I have never regarded him as my
“chief,” so I sat tight,
knowing well that the “Bureau” was quite defunct.
Grayfeather came and made himself
known to each sitter; Dr. Sharp, as usual loud, clear, and in his best
form. Cardinal Newman manifested, and Iola. An Admiral St. C~ came to me
and told me he had been present when I was talking to a friend at
Southsea, giving the man’s name, and recalling some details of the
conversation. (They were true) Each member of the circle received some
test. Two or three times three spirit voices were speaking at the same
moment. The Captain of the
Titanic made
himself known, and, through Dr. Sharp, assumed full blame for the
disaster. Dr. Sharp explained
that Mr. Stead could not etherealise that evening. Julia addressed the
circle. Miss Estelle was not
present on this occasion.
I may mention that Stead’s talk on
every occasion that he came was characteristic of him. Nobody who heard
it and who had enjoyed the privilege of knowing him in life could doubt
that he was before us.
Wednesday, May 15.
Julia’s circle. There was one stranger present, a physician much interested in psychic research. He
was well known to the psychic, who asked him to sit next to her. As
usual, phenomena began very quickly, and continued throughout the séance
with but few gaps. Two spirits came to speak to Dr. ——. One was a lady
whom he had attended last year. Dr. Sharp assisted her to make her
identity known, and then said:
“She wants to ask you a question.” A voice asked: “Doctor, did you get
your fee?” and went on to
indicate that the speaker had been troubled about it.
The Doctor told me
afterwards that this was, to him, a remarkable test. Before an operation
he had made special arrangements with this poor lady, whose means he
knew were very limited, and had agreed to a very reduced fee. After her
death, owing to some foolish misunderstanding on the part of one of the
executors, his account was disputed, and the payment was delayed for
some time; in fact he was actually asked to reduce his minimised charge,
which, of course he declined to do. Eventually the sum for which he had
originally agreed was sent to him, and apologies tendered. Now, talking
to him from the next state, was the lady herself, earnestly inquiring if
her debt had been paid. He reassured his visitor, and she departed after
a short conversation, apparently relieved.
His other visitor
was a foreigner, who asked the Doctor if he would do something for his
brother. He made his own identity clear, and there was no ambiguity
about the request. Dr. Sharp then intervened, and, addressing the
doctor, said: “Don’t do it; if people who are born with five senses use
only four, you cannot do anything with them.” The doctor told me he
quite understood the message of the spirit, and that the control’s
advice was good.
Mr. Stead spoke. He
welcomed the doctor to the circle, and greeted me and other members. Iola manifested, and
addressed a few words to all. Mrs. Anker’s child came to her, talking in the Norwegian
tongue; also her father-in-law, whom she had never seen in life. As I sat next to Mrs.
Anker, I heard the prattle of the child very distinctly. The cloak of a lady sitting opposite
to me, and distant about five feet, was brought from the back of her
chair, and thrown over the back of the lady next on my left and over my
left arm. Many spirit friends of the sitters spoke during the evening.
Two voices, occasionally
three, talked simultaneously.
Wednesday, May 22.
A minute or two after the lights were switched off the white form of a
man appeared in front of me, and was sensed by the lady on my left. Mrs.
Wriedt said: “There is
someone here of the name of
——.” This was the surname of a military man, a friend of mine, who died
some five or six years ago after many years of great suffering. I asked
him to speak, but he was unable to do so. (He came to me afterwards at
one of my private séances, and talked for some little time. There was a
decided significance, to me, in his making himself known just at this
time.) Cardinal Newman
manifested, and gave a Latin benediction. Again Mrs. Anker’s child came
to her and talked in their own
language. Some three or four friends of different sitters came to them, after which Grayfeather
talked in loud and lively tones.
Q. (from my neighbour): “Do you build
houses the other side, and do you need sleep?” A.: “No; no shutte
eye~always wake.” Q.: Do you get tired?” A.: “No get
tired, because me no walke with
bones.” Q.: “Do you need food?” A.: “Where I put it?”
The Indian told
Mrs. Wriedt that her husband in Detroit, Michigan, had
slipped on the outer steps leading up to the house and strained his
ankle. (A letter received a month later confirmed this.) He also gave
good tests to four members of the circle.
On several
occasions the spirits sang through the trumpet or joined in when we
sang. Iola came to me, but could not speak. She was not seen by the
ladies right and left of me. Neither Julia nor Stead manifested. As a
Wednesday evening sitting it was inferior.
Wednesday, May 29.
Dr. Sharp came first, and greeted all the members of the circle. Mrs.
Wriedt complained bitterly that none of her relatives ever came to her.
Could not Dr. Sharp bring her father to see her? He was a Welshman, who
had many relatives residing in this country. Sharp said, I will tell him
what you have said,” but made no promise.
William Stead
junr., who passed over several years before his father, came and talked
to his sister, who told him
that she recognised his voice as the same she had heard last year. I can support Miss Estelle in this statement. There are a few
spirit voices, I have noticed,
which never alter, and one is young Stead’s. I have often talked to him;
the voice and manner of talking are always precisely the same. He is an
excellent communicator. When in this life he did not believe in
Spiritism.
Grayfeather burst
in: “Me here! Me heapy much glad to see you” (Trumpet banged on the
floor). He then greeted each sitter individually, paying special
attention to Miss Estelle, and threw the trumpet out of the circle. Sir
Henry Irving manifested for a minute, saying in the same voice I heard
last year, “’Tis well, ’tis well,” and singing a few bars of a song. He was followed
by three spirits, who came to different sitters and were identified. I related to the
circle a curious phenomenon I had been shown the previous morning; the
trumpet had been twice removed from the floor, and twice, noiselessly,
replaced in exactly the same position. The first time this happened Mrs.
Wriedt thought that, in sweeping round my hand in the dark, I might have
missed it. I knew this to be extremely improbable, because it was
standing within six or eight inches of a table, and the small end three
inches above it; I had the table as a guide. On the second experiment we clasped
hands (which we could just do by both reaching forward to the full extent of our
arms), swept towards the table, touched it, lowered our arms one and a
half feet, and then swept outwards an arc of about forty degrees. No
trumpet! On lighting up, there it was, standing precisely where I had
found it after the first
experiment. The trumpet is always kept damp inside, and one damp ring
only was visible on the floor
coinciding exactly with the rim of the mouth of the trumpet, Joined as
our arms were, it was absolutely impossible to miss any object within
the arc I have mentioned.
A voice, Iola:
“Dematerialization is suspension. It was suspended out of reach and
sight.” Q.: “What do you mean? There was no question of sight, for we
were in the dark.” Iola: Do you remember that a trumpet has fallen
several times from the ceiling?” [Correct. I have seen this phenomenon
at least eight times] That is dematerialization; the light was so strong
that it fell.” [Every time it happened it was at the instant of
switching on the lights.] “This is suspension. In our case yesterday
morning the trumpet was lifted up; it was not actually dematerialised.”
Q.: “It was in
exactly the same place when the
lights were switched on.. Was it simply lifted up out of our reach, or was it
dematerialised?” Iola; “Dematerialised.”
Dr. Sharp now
intervened, and gave an explanation in almost the same words as those
used by my guide. I could not make head or tail of it; but I find that I
seldom can when spirits try to explain to us how these mysterious
physical phenomena are performed. They appear to be unable to explain
these wonders in terms that mortals can understand. It was no use
pursuing the subject.
A husband and wife were visited by
their son, who talked to them for several minutes. The lady on my left
got into touch with young Brailey, who was drowned in the
Titanic;
then Mrs. Anker, on my right, was
visited by a distinguished Norwegian authoress, who conversed with her
for some time in their own language. Mrs. Anker told me that the last
time she saw this lady in life was in Rome; she was much attached to
her. She added: “I asked her just now if she knew my husband [in spirit
life}, and she replied: ‘ Yes, yes; he is here now!’ I wrote of her in
Norway after her death.” All that I could make out in the talk of the
spirit were the words “Ella Anker, Ella Anker,” in most affectionate
tones.
Mrs. Wriedt: “Things seem to be a
little queer in my head. I must go outside.” She left the room for a few minutes. I
gathered that she had taken on the dying condition of the spirit who had
just been talking to my neighbour. On her return, Dr. Sharp gave an
address on the developing customs of the fakirs in India, in clear, loud
tones that anybody might have heard outside the room. It lasted several
minutes, and wound up with, “Remember, friends, this is not for
publication.
The control then
went on to say that most mortals had not developed their brain cells,
and referred to the superior development of distinguished men like Mr.
Stead. I tried hard to follow this discourse, but failed, and other
sitters were no more fortunate. The enunciation was perfect; but he
could not explain his meaning, nor answer questions put to him by the
sitters, in such a way that we could find out what he meant. The voice
was firm, and loud enough to have been heard downstairs; he must have
talked for thirty minutes in the aggregate. Julia now manifested, and
greeted Miss Estelle Stead and all the members of the circle.
I did not attend
the séance of Wednesday, June 5. Wednesday June 12. Atmospheric
conditions bad. As soon as the lights went out, I saw a white form
approaching me. Iola whispered for a second or two, and said: “You have
dropped a flower.” The lady on my right did not see the form, but the
lady on my left sensed a presence and heard the words; she most kindly
picked up the flower from the floor that had been brought by the spirit.
Dr. Sharp then made himself known, and greeted each sitter by name. Then
Grayfeather exclaimed: “Me here! me here! Me heap much glad to come to
big chief across pond.” That
morning the Indian had come to a private circle of mine, and accosted an old lady sitting next to
me who was wearing a turquoise brooch, asking her in what month she was
born. She replied “February”; and he then said, “Turquoise no good for
February.” It seemed appropriate, therefore, to ask him this evening
what precious stones represented the months of the year. His answers to
various questions of the sitters were: March, catseye; September,
moonstone: June, topaz: December, turquoise; April, amethyst. We could
not make much of it. Then he had quite interesting conversations with
the ladies to the right and left of me about their respective
occupations; they seemed to think that his knowledge of their affairs
was
remarkable. All this time a second
had been ejaculating remarks from the floor not far from Mr. King, and at rare intervals
a third voice intervened.
The voice which we
have been accustomed to associate with Sir Henry Irving now spoke: “’Tis
well, ‘tis well.” He could not make us understand what he wished to say.
A son of two of the sitters now manifested, and talked with his parents
for some minutes. Here William Stead, junr., had a long talk with his
sister, and made an appointment to meet her and another brother at a
private sitting the following week.
Grayfeather came again to give a
prophecy to a sitter about a friend of his who, he declared, would have
an accident in a motor-car in a month or two if he did not take care.
His description of the gentleman (whom I afterwards met) was excellent.
After this I heard a voice close to the floor near my feet. It was clear
that the spirit wanted to speak to me; but the words were not
distinguishable. Grayfeather said: “You remember, chief, where once you
go in your ship to line Islands, the first Island you come to you go
ashore to big meeting you meet a tall man with black moustache; he
not a black man. When you
come back, you find no clapper on bell. You hunt around to find out who did it, and no one
tell.”
Admiral Moore: “I have a
sort of dim remembrance of the tongue of the ship’s bell being removed, Grayfeather; but I
cannot clearly recollect anything about it. I will ask my brother officers.”
Dr. Sharp: “You got
off the ship and went to the meeting house, and that was when it was
done. This man here [spirit] is the man who did it. He did it for a
purpose.” Admiral Moore: “It was a very curious voyage.” Dr. Sharp: “You
had to be very careful, and it’s a wonder you ever returned. You had
treachery behind and in front of you.”
The next day I
enquired of a captain in the Navy who had served with me for some years.
He laughed and said: “I remember hearing about that having happened when
you commanded the Dart, but not when I was with you.” I am now making
further inquiries. This much is certain: that twenty-nine years ago I
did command a ship which made
two long and arduous voyages among the remote islands in the Pacific at
and near the Equator; that
during these voyages I was faced with difficulties of no ordinary kind
(not inaptly described by Dr. Sharp); and that I did go to several
meeting-houses of the Polynesians. Unfortunately, the first lieutenant
of the Dart is dead; but I hope to find out more about it, and, if I am
successful, will report in a future letter.
A Voice: “Power up, power done.”
Julia now came in and talked briefly
to Miss Estelle and the members of the circle in her refined English
tones, finishing with “Sweet rest to all, good night.”
Wednesday, June 19. The members of
Julia’s circle assembled in the drawing-room, where they examined a
photograph taken that day in the séance room, in the dark, by a lady.
The picture is unquestionably of psychic origin. It shows a cabin with
door open and apparently
broken, a porthole, ropes hanging about, and, in relief against the
porthole, a face which is very
like W. T. Stead. We then went upstairs to the séanceroom.
The psychic switched off the lights, and before she had time to regain
her chair Dr. Sharp’s voice
was heard. He greeted the sitters by name, and carried on a
conversation in a clear voice with
three of them. Other spirits then manifested. One was Wilbur Wright, the
airman, who conversed with Mrs. Wriedt for a short time; then
Grayfeather, who shouted: “Me here, me here! How do, chief from across
big pond? Me heap much glad you got letter.” Admiral Moore: “I got a
letter from Mr.— — [Mrs. Wriedt’s host in New York] today.” Grayfeather:
“You got your scratchem from little squaw?” [meaning my wife]. Admiral
Moore: “Not yet, but I expect to when I get back to-night” [which I
did]. The Indian addressed another sitter and left. Then came another
Indian spirit~a girl, to judge by the voice; we had heard this voice
last year. Admiral Moore: “Is that you Mimi? How old are you?” Mimi:
“Two hundred years! Miss Scatcherd [addressing the lady on my left], I
going to play with your beads.” [The lady had some beads about her.]
Mimi talked for some minutes
very clearly; the voice was close to me, and sometimes above my head.
The spirit of a
young man manifested to his parents; he also gave a message to a sitter
near to them. A flower from
his mothers dress was taken to another sitter. The members of the circle
sang, and a voice joined in through a trumpet. Iola then spoke to me,
and afterwards greeted the sitters in a little speech. She was instantly
followed by Mr. Stead, who spoke rapidly to his daughter upon private
matters, and then said, with reference to the narrative of his life,
which was to be written by his private secretary: “I want to get right
on. I want Edith to write it as I want it.” A sitter: “He is in a
hurry.” W.T. Stead: Did you ever know me take my time over anything?”
There was a chorus of “No!” from all present. W. T. Stead: “How are you
Admiral?” Admiral Moore: Delighted to hear you again.” A few final words
to his daughter followed. Admiral Moore: “Will you tell us about the
photograph?” W. T. Stead: “The photograph represents what took place in
the Titanic as near as I can give it to you.” Admiral Moore: “Is that
your cabin door?” W. T. Stead: “yes, and the porthole.”
A voice on the floor kept on, at
intervals, complaining “his trumpet had been taken away from him.”
Another spirit came
and talked intelligently to the lady on my left; and a man’s hand was
put into that of Mrs. Anker. He spoke to her in the Norwegian language.
She told me after the séance that it was her husband.
Julia now
manifested, as usual, to close the séance, and talked in eulogistic
terms of Mr. Stead. While she was speaking there was a shout, “Stained
Glass Julia.” This last utterance of Mr. Stead was~to me~the most
striking evidential fact of the séance. He was, in life, surrounded by a
knot of women who adored him for his kindly sympathy. When one of them
approached him with some complimentary speech he would good-naturedly
turn it off by saying “Stained Glass.”
When the lights were switched on a
vase of lilies from a small table was found in the centre of the circle
four feet from where it was seen before the séance commenced. Phenomena
had gone on with scarcely a gap for nearly two hours.
Wednesday, July 3. Farewell to Mrs.
Wriedt.
Directly the lights were out Dr.
Sharp gave a general greeting to the sitters; then a great number of
spirit lights, a flash of light in the ceiling of the room, and a
partial etherealisation were seen; there was an illuminated head and
some white stuff underneath, but the features were not distinguishable.
Then a voice, Iola: “That was
Mr. Stead.” I made an appointment
with her for Friday, July 5; she then gave a few words of address to the
members of the circle and departed. Many spirits manifested to their
friends. The feature of the evening was the clear talk of an Indian girl
who called herself “Blossom.” She gave tests to at least half of the
circle. One sitter was
especially insistent that she should spell out the name of the spirit
who had just before been trying to make himself known. She made an
attempt, but failed, and then said (apparently to someone in the
background), “Come here and do your own talking,” causing a roar of
laughter from us all.
Grayfeather came
for a short time, and told me I had received a letter from a friend in
America (quite correct; I had received it the day before). W. Stead,
junior, spoke for a long time
with his sister Estelle. I asked him to give my kindest regards to his
father. Hr replied, “He hears you Admiral.” Julia manifested last, as is
her custom, and gave a farewell address to Mrs. Wriedt; after which Dr.
Sharp broke in with thanks to all for their kindness to his medium; the
speech of the old control was most effective.
This closes my abridged account of
those “Julia circles” which were held in 1912 while Mrs. Wriedt was at
Cambridge House. It is very far from being complete. I am not justified
in revealing the hundred private details which came out and gave
conviction to individual sitters. But it may be sufficient to confirm
the reiterated statements of all serious investigators during the last
forty years that the best results can only be achieved by the circle
being composed of the same people, sitting on the same day of the week
at the same time. W. T. Stead rightly valued these weekly meetings; but,
as I said before, he only regarded them as pleasant periodical incidents
in his magnificent plan of eventually enabling all, young and old, the
strong and the weak, rich and poor, to get in touch with those whom they
loved and feared they had lost.
Some remarkable
physical phenomena occurred on two or three occasions after the
Wednesday evening séances, in another room downstairs; but, as I left at
once after each séance was over, I am not competent to report them.
The following account, written by Mr.
and Mrs. J. Maybank, is a typical “Bureau” case.
Mr. Maybank served
under my command in H.M.S. Rambler on the China station as a private of the Royal Marine Light Infantry, 1885~1889. He holds now a
responsible civil post. I sat with him at one circle séance and one
private séance; his account of these sittings is correct.
I notice one rather
important omission in his narrative of his private sitting of Monday,
May 20. There was one bright etherealisation. It was a simulacrum of the
chaplain of H.M.S.
Tamar,
1889, the troopship which brought
home the crew of the
Rambler,
Maybank had often talked with the
chaplain on the voyage. I knew him well, not only on board the
Tamar,
but afterwards up to the time of his
death, which occurred three
years ago at Southsea. Mr. Maybank writes :—
Having suffered bereavement
through the loss of our only child, who passed away on February 24, 1911, from consumption, at the age of nearly twenty-one years, my wife and I were drawn to the help and
comfort afforded by Spiritualism at Christmas-time of the same year. We
were first made curious by the conversations we had and reading the
literature lent us by some old friends, who, themselves pronounced
Spiritualists, had suffered
bereavement like ourselves, and had found much consolation in this
beautiful doctrine. An advertisement which appeared in Light drew our attention to a publication by
Vice-Admiral W. Usborne Moore, called
Glimpses of the Next State, and as I had been to sea and served on board H.M.S.
Rambler,
whose Captain was W. Usborne Moore, I
thought it not unlikely they were one and the same person. So I
determined to write and ask the Admiral if he could assist me in my
investigations respecting Spiritualism. I was not greatly surprised to
find my surmise was correct, and that the Captain I had served under
years ago was the author of the work quoted. His letters were most
kind and helpful, and I should like to say here how thankful my wife and I are for the many kindnesses we have experienced
since asking advice about Spiritualism, and how much we appreciate what
he has been able to accomplish for us. Words do not seem adequate, and
expressions fall flat when we remember the amount of consolation that we
have obtained through his instrumentality and goodness of heart.
In replying to me,
the Admiral sent a copy of
Glimpses of the Next State, which, by the way, is most interesting and fascinating, with a request
that I should lend it to anyone whom it would help, and who could not
afford to purchase it, and further stated that in May of this year
(1912) Mrs. Wriedt, a famous medium from America, was coming to England
to stay at the late W. T. Stead’s place at Wimbledon, and I should hear
from him again. Further correspondence resulted in the Admiral kindly
arranging a series of sittings for us with Mrs. Wriedt at Wimbledon, two
private sittings and two in
the general circle, and on the invitation of the Admiral I propose to
place on record our
experiences at these sittings, so that others may be led to know of
the consolation and comfort given by Spiritualism.
My wife and I
arrived at Cambridge House, Wimbledon, on Thursday, May 16, 1912. As arranged we were met by the
Admiral, who was pleased to see us, and made us very welcome and quite at home. After
he had given us a few directions relating to the sittings, we were introduced to Mrs.
Wriedt, the medium, and in company with six others, all strangers to us,
we proceeded to the room where the sittings were to take place. This
room was the one that is known as “Julia’s Bureau,” and is a large room,
comfortably furnished and bright, with many flowers——an ideal room for
that purpose. On the floor were two aluminium trumpets, through which
the spirits were expected to speak.
We sat in a
semi-circle, Mrs. Wriedt sitting at one end of the arc, and after taking
our seats all light was excluded by heavy curtains over the windows etc.
The Lord’s prayer was then repeated aloud, and then one verse of that
beautiful hymn, “Lead Kindly Light,” was sung by all present, and lovely
voices from all parts of the room were heard joining in the singing. A
voice then pronounced the benediction, individually, in Latin, and we
were told it was Cardinal Newman who was speaking. The hymn, “There are angels hovering
round,” was next sung, and my wife and I were conscious of bright forms floating
about the room. These forms were not recognised by us, but we
undoubtedly saw them. I propose to omit all that happened which did not
directly concern us, and only mention the facts we experienced and can
vouch for. We were all sitting quietly and expectantly when Mrs Wriedt
exclaimed, “There is someone at the roses!” and a lady next to me said,
“I have a rose,” and another and another said the same. I then felt a
splash of water on my forehead, and immediately after a rose with a long
stem dropped into my hand, which I passed to my wife.
Directly after this an uncle and a
great uncle and great aunt of my wife came and spoke through one of the
trumpets previously mentioned. The conversation that ensued was purely
personal and private, and would not be of interest to the general
reader, but it left no doubt in my mind that I was actually conversing
with those who had departed from this life many tears ago.
Those who have read
Glimpses of the Next
State will remember the
Grayfeather who is described there so well. He was the next to manifest.
He did not use the trumpet, but spoke direct—first to the Admiral, and
then to my wife and me. Iola, who is the Admiral’s spirit guide, also
came and blessed the circle generally. Next came one singing and whistling as happy as any
schoolboy. He sang Annie Laurie in a powerful voice, and then whistled beautifully.
When he had finished he spoke to me and said: “Don’t you know me.
Maybank?” I replied, “No I don’t.” He repeated the question, and I
answered as before. “What!” he exclaimed, “don’t you know Tommy Mahone?”
I was with you on the Rambler.” He then referred to several incidents
that happened on the ship when on the China station, and I am certain it
was the same Tommy Mahone that I knew on that ship. The Admiral
remarked, “Who is that? Do I know him Mr. Maybank?” and I described who
he was and mentioned several small items in connection with Mahone that
had happened when he was with us on the ship, and I am pleased to say I
fully established his identity with the Gallant Admiral.
Our dear boy next had possession of
the trumpet and spoke to us, and I want to emphasise this
point—immediately he commenced to speak we (his mother and I) recognised
his voice. We did not see him, but we knew his dear voice again; it was
our loved one returned and speaking to us. He greeted us with, “Hulloa,
mum! Hulloa,dad! How are you? I am so pleased you are here tonight
through the kindness of Admiral Moore.” He then told us he was perfectly
sound now, and was very happy, and was with his mother’s grandmother.
Then, speaking to his mother, he said: “Did you get your rose, mum? I
gave it to dad to pass to you.”
I should say that before I passed the
rose to Mrs. Maybank she was disappointed at not having received one, she not
knowing or being able to see that I had already got it. We both distinctly heard our son make
the sound of kissing through the trumpet three times, we heard his
fingernails in contact with the metal. He promised to return on the
following Saturday, when we
were to sit at the next circle. This concluded the sitting, and we left deeply impressed, and oh! So thankful for what we had
listened to.
On Saturday we met at 7 p.m. in the same room, this being another general circle; those present, with
the exception of Mrs. Maybank and me, being entirely different from the
sitters on Thursday. Mr. W. T. Stead came and spoke to some in the
circle for quite a long time. Then our dear boy Harold came and spoke to
us. He said: “Hulloa, mother hulloa father! I am glad you are here.”
Then followed a short conversation which would not interest anyone other
than his parents. Now although not in the least doubting that it was my
son speaking to me, it flashed upon me suddenly to put a test
question—one that would be absolutely convincing to anyone at that time,
and one that I could mention when endeavouring to try and teach the
truth about Spiritualism. So I said: “Harold, do you remember poor old
Cyril?” He replied: “Of course I do dad; didn’t I tease him?” I agreed
that he had teased him, when he went on: “And didn’t he growl?” And he
caused a laugh among the sitters by imitating the noise that a cat would
make when angry. It is reasonable to assume that, when the name “Cyril”
was mentioned, not one of the people sitting there would
suppose it referred to a cat. This,
to my mind, was convincing and unique, as under no circumstances
whatever could anyone present have possibly known that we had a cat
named “Cyril.” Mrs. Maybank then spoke to Harold, and said: “You know
Harold dear, I have had a letter from Mrs. Sainty to-day, and she wants
to know if you can bring Bernie Sainty to speak to me on Monday next.”
He said he would try and do this. I then said: “What did he pass over
with Harold? Do you know?” He replied: “Of course I do dad; but we never
speak about that here.” We then asked if he knew we visited the
Sainty’s, and he said: “Yes, Bernie and I often see you there, and we
are glad you are friends.” He further said: “You know, his mother does
worry so, and it does upset the poor chap.” We then inquired if he
(Harold) could help us at home to get automatic writing, or some other
means whereby we could communicate with him. His reply was that he did
not know, as it was all so new and strange to him yet. I asked him if he had met Florrie Allen (another friend of ours), and
whether he could bring her,
and also my grandmother, on Monday next, when we were to have a private
sitting. He then bade us
goodbye, saying. “Good-bye; God Bless you”; and again we heard the sound of kissing. Others came and spoke to others in the
circle, and then we came away
from the second sitting, deeply grateful for what had been sent us.
On the following Monday (May 20) we
had a private sitting at 11 a.m., and at our request Admiral Moore sat
with us, there being present Mrs. Wriedt, Admiral Moore, my wife and
myself. This was, to us, the best sitting we had, being the most
convincing and absolutely reliable so far as concerned tests and the
giving of proofs of the life beyond.
Grandmother was the first to come,
and I plainly saw and recognised her. She spoke through the trumpet, and her voice
was strong and quite distinct. She told us both that our boy was with her, and quite
happy, and she had grandfather with her too. Harold then came and was
clearly visible to Mrs. Maybank and myself, and I must emphasise this—we
both distinctly saw and recognised him.
He expressed his pleasure at seeing
us, and thanked the Admiral for his kindness in affording us this
opportunity to come into communication with him. The Admiral, who was
delighted, said “Don’t mention it Mr. Maybank; this is one of the
greatest pleasures of my life that your parents are so successful in this experience.”
A voice then suddenly said: “I’m
Flossie, I’m Flossie!” and Mrs. Maybank cried: “What, my little sister?”
when the voice replied: “Little sister indeed! I’m a woman now.” I said:
“Do you remember, Flossie, what I said to you when I was going away that
Sunday ever so long ago?” She replied: “Yes, you said, ‘Good-bye, dear,
I’m off to China, and when I return you will be quite well.” The Admiral
here remarked: “Dear me, this is marvellous, and she was well, Mr.
Maybank.” I should state here that the Flossie referred to was a sister
of Mrs. Maybank who passed away twentyseven years ago at the age of
three years.
She told us how
nice it was to have her bonnie nephew with her, and Mrs. Maybank
remarked, “I suppose you are looking after him,” when the reply came
quick and sharp: “No, indeed, he looks after us!” which greatly amused
both the Admiral and Mrs. Wriedt.
Mrs. Wriedt then said: “I see a young
man standing here with an empty sleeve; he is showing that to me.” I
Inquired if she could describe his hair, when she said: “He has very
bushy hair.” A voice said: “I’m Bernie Sainty! I’m Bernie Sainty!”
Neither Mrs.
Maybank nor I saw him; but he spoke
to us, and gave us messages to give to his parents, which messages were
of a purely private character. He promised to come again the next day,
when we were to have another private sitting. I should explain here that
Bernie Sainty was the elder son of the friends mentioned as having first
brought Spiritualism to our notice. He had had his right arm amputated
for sarcoma, and passed away nearly twelve months before our son. It was
simply impossible for either Mrs. Wriedt or the Admiral to know this,
which fact speaks for itself when considering the genuineness of these
sittings. Grayfeather then came and spoke, greeting Admiral Moore with a
cheery “Good morning Chief Moore across the big pond”; then to me “Good
Morning Chief Bankies.” I replied: “Good morning; are you going to help
me in my search for light and truth in Spiritualism?” He answered, “Yes,
me help you”; and on my inquiring how he proposed to help me I was
requested to keep my eyes open, and I should see. Further conversation
ensued between Grayfeather and myself, which proved to me conclusively
that he was cognisant of facts
which were known to no one else present beside myself, such as points
about my daily duties, which
at the time I am quoting were hardly known to me, and the knowledge expressed by Grayfeather
was simply astounding.
Iola came next, and spoke to
the Admiral for a few minutes, and then to Mrs. Maybank and myself. My
wife asked if she had brought our boy to us. She replied: “No dear
friend; your own presence brought him.” After Iola had gone Julia
blessed us, and the private sitting concluded, and we had reached
another point, and had gained more information about Spiritualism.
Next day, Tuesday, May 21, at 11 a.m., my wife and I and Mrs. Wriedt held our last sitting. Immediately we had
taken our seats, our dear son Harold spoke, his voice being much
stronger than it had been at either of the previous sittings. After a
short conversation of a private nature, Mrs. Maybank asked him if he
knew what it was she had tucked in the front of his shirt as he lay in
his coffin. He replied, without any hesitation: “Of course I do, mum; it
was that piece of gold you gave me.” The explanation of this incident,
which is quite true, is that about five years ago Harold’s mother gave
him a small nugget of gold which she had had for some time. He was very
pleased with it, and told her he would always keep it, and so would
never be without a piece of gold in his purse. He had retained it till
he passed away, and as he lay in his coffin his mother took it from his
purse and tucked it in the front of his shirt. He now went on to mention
things that had happened at home since his passing, such as the framing
and hanging of two small pastels, which he had purchased a short while
ago, and other matters of a domestic nature which, while being
convincing and of deep interest to us personally, would only weary the
reader if given in detail.
Bernie Sainty came
again, as he had promised, and we all remarked what a strong and beautiful voice he had. He sent
loving messages to his parents which were calculated to cheer them up.
Mrs. Maybank’s grandmother came and spoke to us, touched us both with
the trumpet, expressed her delight at our being there, and proved by her
knowledge of events in our lives that it was indeed our grandmother who
was speaking. Mrs. Maybank’s sister Flossie again manifested, sending
her love to her mother, who is still in the earth life, and requested us
to inform her about these sittings and the possibilities of Spiritualism.
Our dear boy came to us twice more
and spoke to us, the conversations being very, very dear and beautiful
to us. He especially mentioned that we were not to worry, it
was all for the best, and even if he
could, he would not like to return to earth life, the life in the spirit
world being so lovely, so beautiful, and he was so well and strong, never tired, always happy, and love
was so abundant. This concluded our sittings with this remarkable medium, and both my
wife and I have had ample proof that our dear boy still lives, that he is
often with us, that our happiness is his happiness and our sorrow his
sorrow. And now let me say how thankful both Mrs. Maybank and I are for
the kindness we experienced at the hands of Mrs. Wriedt. We were total
strangers, but we felt from the
first moment we were together that here was one whose sole aim in life was
to make things brighter and better for her sorrowing brothers and sisters,
to console, to cheer, to reason, and, lastly, to convince. May she long be
spared to use her wonderful gifts, and so lessen the grief of wounded
hearts and brighten the lives of those who mourn over their departed. |